Matt Celebrates 9 Years of Recovery and 2 Years of Accountable

Matt Serel • October 14, 2022

Matt Celebrates 9 Years of Recovery and 2 Years of Accountable

My Truth

 

Nine years ago today I overdosed on Oxycodone in a hotel room on a work trip. 

 

I woke up in the hospital ICU unable to breathe, not knowing where I was, or how I got there. I only survived that day because my wife, girlfriend at the time, was nervous that I didn’t answer my phone. 

 

Today, I celebrate Nine years sober from drugs and alcohol. 

 

I share this for three reasons:


  1. I'm proud of myself. Getting sober was the hardest thing I've ever done.
  2. People shouldn't feel ashamed if they are struggling with.... anything. It's human. Embrace it. Everyone loves a comeback story!
  3. To show that sustainable long term recovery is possible 

 

Recovery is HARD. If you’re interested in the details of my journey definitely check out this post from last year: Matt Celebrates 8 Years of Recovery

 

The fact is that I wasn’t able to do this alone. I really tried. However, despite my best effort, my attempt ended with me in the ICU for a week, thinking my life was over, and I was one of the lucky ones. 

 

Peers are the Missing Link in Sustainable Addiction Recovery

 

There were so many people that helped me along the way. Family, friends, therapists, and psychiatrists to name a few. However, none of them were as impactful to my recovery as other people who were in recovery themselves; “peers”. 

 

Peers, because they truly understood what I was going through, and had the unique ability to get through to me when others couldn’t. They made me realize I wasn’t unique beyond help. Many times upon receiving suggestions from clinicians, I wouldn’t act on them because I “knew” it wouldn’t work, or I felt shame. With peers, there is none of that, because I’m watching them do the exact thing they are telling me to do and it was working for them. 

 

This is one of the main reasons we founded You Are Accountable. Peers are uniquely positioned to help individuals maintain and build on their recovery,  and act as a bridge of unbiased and emotionally uncharged communication between family, and the identified individual. Peers also are able to relay information to the clinical team that may not be unearthed during sessions. Lastly, peers can create an environment where accountability to recovery doesn’t feel adversarial. 

 

Just as important, as a peer, doing the work to help others strengthens my own recovery. 


Today, I have so much to be grateful for, and that is all because of my family, friends, clinicians, and most importantly other individuals in recovery who have walked this path before me and with me. 

 

If you’re struggling, please feel free to reach out to me at any time. It gets easier, and you’re worth it. I promise. 


By Jason Ertrachter February 4, 2025
With over a decade of alcohol and drug abuse, it became clear I could not drink responsibly or consume in moderation. Upon further review, I came to understand I was never able to drink responsibly and was predisposed to consume in excess. Moderation is a construct I still don’t understand. Alcohol, drugs, sugar, ego, all things I love to indulge in. At 25 years old, weeks before the pandemic, I found myself being escorted by security from my beloved office in a sought-after industry in a glamorous part of Los Angeles. Pursuing a career in talent management, the late nights, weekly drinking, daily drug use culminated in the unavoidable fear, anxiety and sense of calamity that led me to recovery. I asked myself, “What was the common denominator between lost jobs, friends lost, arrests, hurt feelings and selfishness?” People, places, things were always changing, but the one constant in my story was me with drugs and alcohol. Walking into the West Hollywood Recovery Center on Monday February 5th, 2020 at noon was not my first meeting. It was, however, the first meeting at which I listened and actually took suggestions. Meetings as a teenager, and again in college when my drug use got bad, were simply to get people off my back. As I look back, I understand that I actually needed to get out of my own way, not have those who loved me off of my back. I am grateful to have gotten sober during a time when the world shut down and so many struggled. I had nowhere to go, no outside distractions to challenge my commitment. I fully emerged myself in meetings and all that AA had to offer for young people. There were thousands of virtual meetings at every hour of the day, but more importantly, rooms and outdoor meetings in LA that never missed a beat. There was an underground community of meeting makers that continued to go to in-person meetings, masks on, hugs and fellowship. I found that the work of early recovery far outweighed the isolation. I left the entertainment industry with two years of sobriety. New career opportunities opened up pretty quickly for me. Transitioning into the startup and tech sales world, I was able to move back home to New York and be closer to my family. As my sobriety continued, new career paths continued to present themselves. When I was introduced to Matt and AJ, I was immediately impressed with their mission and welcomed the opportunity to join the team. I am confident that the combination of my personal and professional success, as well as my CARC, CRPA certification, made my decision the perfect one for me. Having hit my stride in my own recovery, I now see that that my purpose is to help others. It is a purpose I do not take lightly. I bring the same energy and focus that has helped me to get where I am today to other individuals and families alike looking for a better way.
By Stephanie Myers, CPRS January 29, 2025
My name is Stephanie Myers, and I am excited to be part of the incredible team at You Are Accountable . As difficult as my journey prior to recovery was, I am grateful for every step along the way. My recovery journey began five years ago through what I believe was divine intervention. At my lowest point—mentally, physically, and spiritually—I was led to a 12-step recovery program. Most of my life was spent seeking relief from my internal and external struggles. During my teenage years, I thought I had found a solution, but my addiction only progressed, leading me to the depths of despair. My addiction compromised my morals, diminished my integrity, and left me with a profound sense of hopelessness. Overwhelmed by guilt and shame, I realized that everything in my life had to change. I became willing to do whatever it took to shift the trajectory of my life. Gradually, I connected with others who understood my pain and had found their way to recovery. I dedicated myself to internal work and began to fill the spiritual void that I had been attempting to fill with substances. Today, my life is filled with purpose, love, and more beauty than I could have ever imagined five years ago. It is my passion to help others realize that there is hope on the other side of addiction. As a Certified Peer Recovery Specialist, I strive to help plant the seed of recovery and help others grow along their path to recovery.
By Brittany Pealer, CRPS January 28, 2025
My name is Brittany, and I’m honored to be part of the team at You Are Accountable . My journey to recovery has been filled with struggles, lessons, and, ultimately, transformation. For years, I lived in the utter hopelessness of addiction, believing there was no way out. A "normal" life felt completely out of reach, and even as a child, I never felt like I had a true purpose. Throughout my active addiction, I found myself trapped in a relentless cycle. I would put one substance down—whether through treatment or court-ordered intervention—but almost immediately, I would pick up another. Each time, I restarted the same painful, destructive cycle, convinced that I could never break free. It wasn’t until I realized that recovery is an inside job that things began to change. Changing people, places, and things (and substances) can only do so much for so long; true recovery requires doing the hard work within. My turning point came when I became pregnant with my first daughter. For the first time in my life, I found a reason to fight for something greater than myself. That moment marked the beginning of my journey to recovery, and through that journey, I discovered the life I never thought was possible. Today, I’m blessed with an amazing job, a beautiful family with two incredible daughters, and an active role in my recovery community. As a Certified Peer Recovery Specialist (CPRS) and Recovery Coach, I am passionate about helping others find hope and healing. I understand the challenges of breaking free from addiction, and I’m living proof that it’s possible to create a life filled with purpose, joy, and connection. Recovery has given me everything I once believed was out of reach, and I’m honored to walk alongside others as they embark on their own journeys to freedom.
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