As the holiday season approaches, I find myself reflecting on the journey from the days of active addiction to where I stand today. The holidays used to be a time when I would isolate myself, using the festivities as an excuse to indulge in behaviors that deepened my struggles. But now, in recovery from alcohol and substance use disorder, I am filled with gratitude for the transformation in my life.
Today, I cherish the healthy relationships I've built, the strength of my body, and the values and morals that guide me. These are the true gifts of the season, and I express my gratitude by actively participating in the moments that matter. I show up for my family, engage in meaningful conversations, and contribute to the joy of the day by helping prepare and clean up meals. These simple acts of connection and service fill my heart with warmth and remind me how far I’ve come.
The holidays have become an opportunity to celebrate the positive changes in my life. Over the years, I’ve developed strategies to navigate the unique challenges this season can bring, like reconnecting with old friends or managing family dynamics. I plan my schedule intentionally, ensuring I have transportation and a supportive network, such as a sponsor or trusted friend, to rely on. Taking moments to step outside and make a grounding phone call helps me stay centered amidst the festivities.
Service has also become a cornerstone of my holiday experience. Keeping my hands busy with tasks like cooking or cleaning not only helps others but also brings peace and stillness to my mind. Physical activity plays a vital role in calming my spirit and easing any lingering anxiety.
For me, life is a precious gift, and the holidays are a beautiful reminder of that truth. Each year, I am grateful for the chance to participate fully, no longer taking these moments for granted.
If you find yourself on a similar path, know that you are not alone. Together, we can embrace the holidays with hope, gratitude, and joy.
Happy Thanksgiving to all—may your season be filled with love and light!
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